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Continue reading →: No Under 18: Ovulation in Your 30s
The Libido, Hormones & Chaos Disclaimer: This blog is strictly for the grown-ups. No under-18s, please. And if you’re a gent and our paths happen to cross after reading this, don’t even try me with this post. Ngizakutshela ngonyoko, respectfully, because I know how some of you can get. LIYADINA!…
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Continue reading →: The Ultimate Guide to WhatsApp Etiquette (Without Taking It Too Seriously)
Mark Zuckerberg certainly didn’t come up with these rules. If you are reading this, I am assuming you have WhatsApp and you do use it. It may not be your most used communicating app or you most favourite, but you have it and you use it. Let me digress a…
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Continue reading →: The Things We Outgrow Without Realising
Ukukhula akubiki shame. Growth rarely announces itself. It doesn’t arrive with fireworks or a grand speech. More often than not, it’s a thutshu type of situation. One day we look around and realise that the things we once held onto so tightly no longer fit, and money is definitely paper…
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Continue reading →: Things That are Worth The Money
I’ve been seeing the “Things that are worth the money” some are the “EXPENSIVE things that are worth the money” trend on social media. Ofcourse I’m going for the former. One day is one day, sizopopa. Top of the list is convenience. Honestly we have no reason to struggle if…
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Continue reading →: Things That Irritate Me, but are none of my business
There are things that people do that can be annoying and irritating to me…but are none of my business. And before you chop my head off, yes, I know there’s nothing I can do about it but come on… Take for example someone who talks over food? Why ukhulumela ukudla…
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Continue reading →: An Open Letter to My Father, Revisited
The Birthday Call I Can No Longer Make It’s my father’s birthday today. I would have picked up my phone to call him and wish him a happy birthday. Texting wouldn’t work because that man saw messages late and would respond even later. The call would have probably gone something…
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Continue reading →: A Love Letter to My 20s
Why I Don’t Think I’d Change Much About the Decade That Shaped Me Every now and then, I come across articles titled “10 Things I Wish I’d Known in My 20s” or “Advice I’d Give My Younger Self.” They’ve always made me wonder, and if I’m being honest, I don’t…
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Continue reading →: Things That Are Completely Normal (Female Version)
And let me start with saying, this is a safe space. We are open here. We read, COMMENT, we laugh and we don’t judge. Anyhu, hi! There are so many things we experience as women that are completely normal, yet nobody really talks about them. They’re awkward, slightly embarrassing, and…
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Continue reading →: Can You Sustain Your Dreams?We all have dreams. The house with a pool. The successful business. The career we’ve always wanted. The life we imagine when things get tough. But here’s a question we rarely ask ourselves: Can you sustain your dreams? It’s one thing to dream about having more. It’s another to be…
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Continue reading →: Surviving Periods: Three things that make it easy
Heyy… My blog is late. But you know what else likes being late? Periods! Let’s talk about Bloody Mary for a second. Not the cute social media version where a girl is peacefully sipping tea in a white outfit. I’m talking about real periods. The type where you’re planning your…
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