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Continue reading →: Turns out, having money is nice
Bafethu, z’hlobo zami, vadikani vangu…if there’s one thing you can do for yourself in this life, it’s to have money. I am not talking about millions, no, baby; I am not delusional. But imali is where it’s at. Recently, I went out with my #BFF and somewhere between the food,…
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Continue reading →: #KindaChic: Things I Have Decided Are Actually Quite Chic
I’m not effortlessly chic. My life is not perfectly curated, my outfits don’t always eat, and some days I am one minor inconvenience away from wearing pyjamas until further notice. But apparently, there’s an aesthetic for that. Welcome to the world of #kindachic, where being a little put together, a…
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Continue reading →: My Favourite Zimbabwean Snacks & Food Products: The Zim Brands That Slap
Many things annoy me about adulting, and at the top of the list? Buying groceries 😩. It is an endless, vicious cycle. You buy groceries. You eat the groceries. The groceries disappear. You buy more groceries. And before you’ve even recovered financially from the last shop, you’re back in the…
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Continue reading →: No Under 18: Ovulation in Your 30s
The Libido, Hormones & Chaos Disclaimer: This blog is strictly for the grown-ups. No under-18s, please. And if you’re a gent and our paths happen to cross after reading this, don’t even try me with this post. Ngizakutshela ngonyoko, respectfully, because I know how some of you can get. LIYADINA!…
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Continue reading →: The Ultimate Guide to WhatsApp Etiquette (Without Taking It Too Seriously)
Mark Zuckerberg certainly didn’t come up with these rules. If you are reading this, I am assuming you have WhatsApp and you do use it. It may not be your most used communicating app or you most favourite, but you have it and you use it. Let me digress a…
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Continue reading →: The Things We Outgrow Without Realising
Ukukhula akubiki shame. Growth rarely announces itself. It doesn’t arrive with fireworks or a grand speech. More often than not, it’s a thutshu type of situation. One day we look around and realise that the things we once held onto so tightly no longer fit, and money is definitely paper…
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Continue reading →: Things That are Worth The Money
I’ve been seeing the “Things that are worth the money” some are the “EXPENSIVE things that are worth the money” trend on social media. Ofcourse I’m going for the former. One day is one day, sizopopa. Top of the list is convenience. Honestly we have no reason to struggle if…
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Continue reading →: Things That Irritate Me, but are none of my business
There are things that people do that can be annoying and irritating to me…but are none of my business. And before you chop my head off, yes, I know there’s nothing I can do about it but come on… Take for example someone who talks over food? Why ukhulumela ukudla…
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Continue reading →: An Open Letter to My Father, Revisited
The Birthday Call I Can No Longer Make It’s my father’s birthday today. I would have picked up my phone to call him and wish him a happy birthday. Texting wouldn’t work because that man saw messages late and would respond even later. The call would have probably gone something…
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