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Continue reading →: Random facts about me
Heya! If you are a regular degular to this blog then you will know I am about all things Fikile! If you’re new here (WELCOME!!!), then now you know. Today I am revealing my darkest and very not dark secrets about me. My full names are Fikile Nomadlozi Nyathi. I…
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Continue reading →: To the man I zoned…
Dear John, Well well, here we are…to the third letter. Just so you know; I have written 2 before this one. One to my crush and one to the man who never called. This is what I have to say to you…of all the many things I regret, and I…
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Continue reading →: To the man that never called
Dear You, I forgive you for being a coward. I am not sure if you remember me, but we met once in town; to be specific it was along Robert Mugabe way along 8th Avenue and Takawira, I think (I am not good with street names and avenues). But yea,…
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Continue reading →: A letter to my crush 💌
Dear crush, Gosh, how do l even begin this???! I know what l want to say l just don’t know how. But let me start with when we spent that Sunday together many months ago. During that time on Sunday, l didn’t realize l was crushing on you until Monday…
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Continue reading →: Time Of the Month…
I think if there’s anything that we as women can fully agree on is that periods suck. That thing is the pits! I always try to comfort myself that I have it better than other women, which is true, but it still doesn’t make it suck any less. I can’t…
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Continue reading →: Idlozi liyaphakelwa: acknowledging my ancestors
Edit Post Preview(opens in a new tab)Add titleIdlozi liyaphakelwa: acknowledging my ancestors “You are the latest version of your Ancestors. Within your DNA exists their consciousness”. – Dalian Adofo This post is based on the value of cultivating high regard for our elders which is one of the common values…
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Continue reading →: A letter to my unborn child
See, amongst many things that I want and wish for in my life, being a mother is one of them. As flawed up as I am, I want to mother a whole human being. I actually don’t know why I haven’t, oh wait, sis is a broke mf…but we move.…
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Continue reading →: Let’s play: TRUTH OR DARE
Greetings dear readers! For this week I had a pretty serious issue I wanted to share my 2 cents on but after much deliberation with relevant stakeholders, the topic was taken off the table and I decided let’s play the famous TRUTH OR DARE game. Exciting! I will truthfully answer…
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Continue reading →: P.D.A and other love languages
So, there’s something called love languages. And according to Gary Chapman, there are five of them: words of affirmation, Acts of service, Receiving gifts, Quality time, and Physical touch. These love languages describe the way we feel loved and appreciated. And from that, this is how my love language is…
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Continue reading →: What I would do if I won the lottery today…
Here I am, a big time winner…now what to do? First thing I would do is get pregnant. The only thing stopping me from having a baby right now is money. With the little money I make at the moment I am only able to buy gin and lemonade. Okay…

