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Continue reading →: The heartbreak I was never warned about: hurts far more than a lover walking away
Batlao hurda! No really, they will hurd (hurt) you. A friendship breakup can hurt and break your heart just the same way splitting with a partner does, or even more. So, while we concede the trauma that comes with romantic breakups, we don’t really talk about the fallout of platonic…
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Continue reading →: 5 things I hate about myself: A rant to me about me
Hey…long time. Miss me? From the title you already know this is not a happy post but I have news to make up for it. This blog, which I hope is one of your favourite blogs was nominated for its first (of many) blog awards. I was nominated in this…
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Continue reading →: WATCH: My 5 fav self-care activities
Heeeeey ya’ll! Hope you’s doing great in these not so fun times. Today I come bearing a listicle, I think love them tbh. It’s going to be about my top 5 self-care activities. I don’t think it comes as a surprise that one should practice self-care, paying attention to yourself should…
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Continue reading →: Appreciation blog |First post of the year
2020 wasn’t the greatest of years generally, I don’t know what 2021 brings but by the look of things it’s just as fucked. Things are just uncertain at the moment. But the fact still remains, we are here and we should do the most, as much as we can. A…
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Continue reading →: Relationship Q and A – continued
Hey, today I am continuing and finishing this blog. Sis has to be grounded and finish which she started. In the first post I did say that I am not a dating disaster but neither am I a guru at it. I still maintain the following disclaimer – LEST YOU…
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Continue reading →: My short lived and failed online dating experience
Hi, It only took me one try to know that online dating is not my cuppa tea. And maybe I am at fault for trying something I had no idea about. A likkle background, I had been in a relationship and it happened that we had a fall out and…
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Continue reading →: My worst pet peeves that grind relationships
Heya! Still on the relationship mode, today I want to tell y’all about my pet peeves in romantic relationships. Granted, it would be absolutely awesome if your significant other just somehow managed to absolutely never annoy you but that’s never the case. Even in the best relationships, it’s inevitable that…
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Continue reading →: Relationship Question & Answer
Heya! Lately I have been having the urge to share my dating stories and so I will be going over my dating woes and joys (mostly woes) here and there. I am not really a dating disaster but you cannot seek dating advice from me either. So, I decided I…
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Continue reading →: A teetotaler? Maybe in my next life: Why I choose to take the poison I take
Drinking alkahol makes you friends. So, point to note: sometimes being greeted by almost everyone in a club doesn’t make you a **** y’all just happen to see each other from those spaces almost every time. You know that, “Oh heyyyyyyy!” moment? It’s like you know each other but you…
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