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Continue reading →: If I were a boy…
DISCLAIMER: By this post I don’t mean to desire, appropriate or to suffer from gender dysphoria and all the issues that mantle bodies and sexuality. If I were a boy, I would normalise walking about without harassing girls. If I were a boy, I would have a fetish for bums.…
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Continue reading →: Relationships and Distance: A GUEST POST
Passionately crafted by: Mthulisi #KingKG Ndlovu A genuine dedication to lovers and prospects. One of the greatest causes of emotional unrest, distrust and fatal breakups to many prominently promising relationships has been non other than the failure to handle the effect of distance. If we were to be questioned by…
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Continue reading →: Why the movie ‘The fault in our stars’ (TFIOS) by John Green is it for me
John Green did not sugar-coat cancer and I know this because literally a year after watching TFIOS for the first time I lived for almost a year with someone with cancer – a family member.
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Continue reading →: What I want for my birthday and why
I know ‘WANT’ doesn’t ‘GET’ but oh well I don’t want YOU to crack your head trying to think what YOU can get me for my birthday when I can make the job easy for you. My birthday is on the 23rd of December so I think that gives YOU…
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Continue reading →: Never have I ever…
Hi! Hope you is well and you is great. This week I am playing the Never have I ever game, a blog edition!! I am excited because this is an idea I have had for weeks and I finally get to do it. DISCLAIMER: I WILL BE HONEST and if…
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Continue reading →: I unfollowed the Chelsea team on IG and I knew I was over him
DISCLAIMER: This is not an inspirational or an uplifting post or something like that on how to get over your ex. Tell me something; how did you know you were over your ex? Getting over an ex is not as easy as drinking gin and tonic. It wasn’t easy for…
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Continue reading →: I got suspended at high school for the weekend
I want to tell you of a story which happened many moons ago. This is a story about a girl who at the time was aged 18 when she and her friends decided to drive out of the school premises. Setting is at a boarding school, Inyathi high school some…
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Continue reading →: AND I WON THE LIEBSTER AWARD!
This is my first blog nomination and its a big deal which is why I will pop a bottle later, because why not? Its a NOMINATION! The fact that I was, means I am doing something right. I was nominated for the Liebster Award by Nashe, (shout out to him!)…
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Continue reading →: An open letter to my father
I have heard it so many times that we choose our parents way before we are born, and I am happy that I am the one out of a million who won the race! Dear Father I think anyone who really knows me, knows that you are my role model,…
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Continue reading →: Why getting older hasn’t completely sucked
In as much as growing up has shown me flames and fulfilled the statement/proverb (whatever it is), ‘kura uone’ which my mom loved to say; it hasn’t completely sucked. 7 months having graduated, I still haven’t figured out what it is exactly I want to major in in the publishing…
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