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Continue reading →: My worst pet peeves that grind relationships
Heya! Still on the relationship mode, today I want to tell y’all about my pet peeves in romantic relationships. Granted, it would be absolutely awesome if your significant other just somehow managed to absolutely never annoy you but that’s never the case. Even in the best relationships, it’s inevitable that…
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Continue reading →: Relationship Question & Answer
Heya! Lately I have been having the urge to share my dating stories and so I will be going over my dating woes and joys (mostly woes) here and there. I am not really a dating disaster but you cannot seek dating advice from me either. So, I decided I…
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Continue reading →: A teetotaler? Maybe in my next life: Why I choose to take the poison I take
Drinking alkahol makes you friends. So, point to note: sometimes being greeted by almost everyone in a club doesn’t make you a **** y’all just happen to see each other from those spaces almost every time. You know that, “Oh heyyyyyyy!” moment? It’s like you know each other but you…
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Continue reading →: Random facts about me
Heya! If you are a regular degular to this blog then you will know I am about all things Fikile! If you’re new here (WELCOME!!!), then now you know. Today I am revealing my darkest and very not dark secrets about me. My full names are Fikile Nomadlozi Nyathi. I…
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Continue reading →: To the man I zoned…
Dear John, Well well, here we are…to the third letter. Just so you know; I have written 2 before this one. One to my crush and one to the man who never called. This is what I have to say to you…of all the many things I regret, and I…
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Continue reading →: To the man that never called
Dear You, I forgive you for being a coward. I am not sure if you remember me, but we met once in town; to be specific it was along Robert Mugabe way along 8th Avenue and Takawira, I think (I am not good with street names and avenues). But yea,…
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Continue reading →: A letter to my crush 💌
Dear crush, Gosh, how do l even begin this???! I know what l want to say l just don’t know how. But let me start with when we spent that Sunday together many months ago. During that time on Sunday, l didn’t realize l was crushing on you until Monday…
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Continue reading →: Time Of the Month…
I think if there’s anything that we as women can fully agree on is that periods suck. That thing is the pits! I always try to comfort myself that I have it better than other women, which is true, but it still doesn’t make it suck any less. I can’t…
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Continue reading →: Idlozi liyaphakelwa: acknowledging my ancestors
Edit Post Preview(opens in a new tab)Add titleIdlozi liyaphakelwa: acknowledging my ancestors “You are the latest version of your Ancestors. Within your DNA exists their consciousness”. – Dalian Adofo This post is based on the value of cultivating high regard for our elders which is one of the common values…
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Continue reading →: A letter to my unborn child
See, amongst many things that I want and wish for in my life, being a mother is one of them. As flawed up as I am, I want to mother a whole human being. I actually don’t know why I haven’t, oh wait, sis is a broke mf…but we move.…
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