With this comes so much complications. I watch too much movies and we often say movies are fantasies (somehow lies). I dont disput that but some are real things that we come to face in our lives. I have learnt a lot from them. With relationships it is when you ‘focus’ on that one person all your pasts are exactly that- the past.
Frienefits (Friends with benefits) ….these are not basic friends. I see it as a very complicated friendship,a messy one. They go out,maybe catch a movie and all and do ‘other’ things together-sexual items. But remember they are friends and there is nothing more to it.
So l got to ask few people what they prefer and 99% was on the frienefit side and they say its because with relationships there a lot of expectations and ‘rules’ and so much differences to adjust to…frenefits you dont read too much into it
Then the 1% says relationships are the best because once you know your person all is good. You learn to love them like they are…

Well what do you prefer ?
What l opt for heehehe is another issue on its own